Friday, November 8, 2013

How Do I Sex? - What Sex Means for Different People

This probably should have been the first post, but that wouldn't have drawn any attention. You know, just like when you're in trouble, you yell "boobs!" instead of "fire!" because that's likely to cause people to look in your direction. Well, that's what I was taught in driving school.

If you asked most people what sex means to them, they might say answer about sexual intercourse, and how they feel about it. This is true for me, as well. However, during my time in many trainings and conventions, I've learned that there are bunches of ideas out there of what sex is!

For example, I asked some of my friends what it meant to them, and one of them said that sex isn't only about physical contact. It can be emotional and spiritual, too. They could easily have sex by simply meditating with someone because there is strong sexual energy there. They also mentioned that it's very personal, not just something that happens.

Something else I read about was called "Astral Sex", which is basically out-of-body sex with different energies involved. I don't know much about it, and I've never had an out-of-body experience, so I'm a little skeptical, however I encourage you to look it up. This sounds similar to "thinking off"; using your brain and imagination (not physical contact) to sexually arouse yourself and have a climax of sexual energy, and even having an orgasm without ejaculating. If you want to learn more, I recommend watching "Strange Sex" on TLC or online.

Tantric sex involves meditation, breathing, and light touching. You could have sex with your partner from across the room by using each others energies, using some meditation, and deep breathing. Sounds kind of fun to me!

There are times when you just can't have sex (postpartum, pregnancy, injuries, emotional roadblocks, etc.), but you still want to have sex. It doesn't make seem to make sense, but there are ways for you to enjoy the sexual energies without there being any penetration. You can masturbate together, have oral sex, watch porn or just a sexy movie together, make out and let your mouth wander around, or even write erotica for each other.

I plan on looking for more to add to this because I find this topic very interesting. If you want to add what sex means to you, please send me a message or post a comment! I'd be more than happy to incorporate it into an update.

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